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As a Parent, there are many positive reasons to grow your family through surrogacy, egg donation, or sperm donation!

How you got here doesn’t matter. What matters is fulfilling your dream to grow your family.

Whether you are privately struggling with infertility, or you identify as member of the LGBT community, or you are a single parent who does not want to wait, surrogacy could be the right solution for you.

Your path to becoming a parent may seem overwhelming but finding the providers that offer expertise in issues related to third-party reproductive techniques using donor egg, sperm, embryo, surrogacy or gestational carrier is essential. 

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IVF Physicians & IVF Clinics

In vitro fertilization (IVF) is a medical procedure that is now widely available to help people with fertility problems have a baby, as well as those couples and individuals who cannot conceive naturally, such as a same-sex couples.   During IVF, an egg is removed from a woman’s ovaries and fertilized with sperm in a laboratory. The fertilized egg, called an embryo, is then returned to a woman’s womb to grow and develop.  Choosing which clinic and which doctor you want to help achieve your dream is imperative. 

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Attorneys

Finding a good reproductive law attorney can be a daunting task that you should take very seriously because you may be involved with this individual for quite some time, and he or she will be handling your rights as a parent. In fact, we recommend that you create a list of attorneys whom you have found through your research and attorneys whom others have recommended. Then interview the attorneys —do they provide a free consultation so that you can get to know them and their expertise? If not, you should think twice about hiring them because their motivations may not be to help you in your journey.

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IVF Physicians & IVF Clinics

In vitro fertilization (IVF) is a medical procedure that is now widely available to help people with fertility problems have a baby, as well as those couples and individuals who cannot conceive naturally, such as a same-sex couples.   During IVF, an egg is removed from a woman’s ovaries and fertilized with sperm in a laboratory. The fertilized egg, called an embryo, is then returned to a woman’s womb to grow and develop.  Choosing which clinic and which doctor you want to help achieve your dream is imperative. 

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Attorneys

Finding a good reproductive law attorney can be a daunting task that you should take very seriously because you may be involved with this individual for quite some time, and he or she will be handling your rights as a parent. In fact, we recommend that you create a list of attorneys whom you have found through your research and attorneys whom others have recommended. Then interview the attorneys —do they provide a free consultation so that you can get to know them and their expertise? If not, you should think twice about hiring them because their motivations may not be to help you in your journey.

Psychological Professionals

Psychological support is an important part of your journey. Whether you are an intended parent, a surrogate, an egg donor, a sperm donor or an embryo donor. Psychological professionals recognize the importance of education and support at the beginning, in the middle and at the conclusion of the process.  This is an integral part of your journey and should not be overlooked. Not only will the psychological screening ensure everyone is mentally and psychologically ready to be a surrogate or donor, but it will also prepare you for any potential challenges ahead.

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Trust/Escrow Accounts

How to handle the money and accounts of donors and surrogates is an important aspect in your journey. It allows parties to feel secure that the funds for this process are available and ready to make payments as needed. Actual trust accounts and escrow accounts are held by licensed attorneys or escrow companies who are licensed and bonded by their state. The parties need to be innovative and protect themselves.   Check on that attorney with his or her state bar or ask that escrow company for a copy of its licensing and bonding and then verify it—do not take anyone’s word for it, whether you are a donor, surrogate, or intended parent. Point blank, ask questions and protect yourself.

Surrogacy Agencies

The number one consideration when choosing a surrogacy agency is that you find an agency that cares for you and your surrogate so that you are able to focus on the baby. They need to treat the whole process from start to finish and think before you sign. Are they only a matching service, or are they more? Make certain that you know what you are obligating yourself to and make certain that you sit down with the agency and “kick the tires” before you sign anything.

You should not choose an agency based on its program fees or the fees that it pays donors/surrogates. In fact, you need to discover what that agency will provide to you during your journey.  Here a few questions to start your discussions:

  • How long have they been in business?
  • What is their experience level? Number of cases in the past year?
  • How many babies have been born this year? In years past?
  • Are they currently embroiled in litigation?
  • Do they carry errors and omissions insurance?

Egg Donation Agencies

Egg donation agencies are responsible for locating, screening, supporting, and coordinating the parties in an egg donation process. They are also instrumental in coordinating all medical appointments that are to take place, addressing areas of conflict, and providing support where needed by the parties. Just as above with surrogacy agencies, ask the questions before you sign.

Surrogacy Agencies

The number one consideration when choosing a surrogacy agency is that you find an agency that cares for you and your surrogate so that you are able to focus on the baby. They need to treat the whole process from start to finish and think before you sign. Are they only a matching service, or are they more? Make certain that you know what you are obligating yourself to and make certain that you sit down with the agency and “kick the tires” before you sign anything.

You should not choose an agency based on its program fees or the fees that it pays donors/surrogates. In fact, you need to discover what that agency will provide to you during your journey.  Here a few questions to start your discussions:

  • How long have they been in business?
  • What is their experience level? Number of cases in the past year?
  • How many babies have been born this year? In years past?
  • Are they currently embroiled in litigation?
  • Do they carry errors and omissions insurance?

Egg Donation Agencies

Egg donation agencies are responsible for locating, screening, supporting, and coordinating the parties in an egg donation process. They are also instrumental in coordinating all medical appointments that are to take place, addressing areas of conflict, and providing support where needed by the parties. Just as above with surrogacy agencies, ask the questions before you sign.

Sperm Banks

Sperm banks have been around for decades providing prospective parents the opportunity to use sperm from a male who donates semen in order to help an individual or a couple conceive a baby. Donated sperm can be administered via intrauterine insemination or can be used to fertilize mature eggs in a lab via IVF. The landscape for sperm donation has changed over the years with some sperm donors agreeing to provide health information over their lifetime. 

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Egg Banks

Egg banks provide prospective parents with thoroughly screened egg donors that have already has their eggs harvested and proven as high-quality and viable eggs.  While egg banks provide you flexibility as a parent or egg donor, many still think that fresh eggs are the best option for most.  There are pros and cons to frozen eggs versus fresh eggs, so please research each option beforehand.

Where do I locate the above resources?

By looking into our directory at Sage Fertility, you can locate. analyze, and research those in the third-party reproduction field to make certain that your journey goes as smoothly as possible – whether you are a parent, surrogate, egg donor, sperm donor, or embryo donor. 

What are the expected fees from a surrogacy or donor agency?

Please contact your IVF physician/clinic and several surrogacy and egg donor agencies directly for a comprehensive breakdown of expected costs. Please understand that the fees generally listed are estimated only. Always inquire about hidden costs or additional potential expenses along the way.

Although it is impossible to determine the exact cost of your specific situation, you should have a clear idea of what could potentially arise in a worst-case scenario.  Fees listed by agencies for outside professionals are often manipulated so that working through their office will appear less costly, so please inquire with each individual professional for quoted rates. Be sure to also factor in the costs for laboratory fees, consultation appointments, legal fees, donor and surrogate compensation, agency fees, psychological screening and counseling, fertility professional fees, insurance costs, premiums and deductibles, travel costs, and miscellaneous expenses possibly incurred by the donor or throughout the pregnancy for the surrogate.

Where should I begin in locating an egg donor?  

Most parents prefer to locate their donor through the assistance of their health care professional or through the services of an outside agency. Th e difference between these two options lies primarily in selection and wait time. Because most fertility centers offer donors only a very specific c compensation, the number of applicants available to provide to patients is limited, thereby increasing the wait time for parents. The upside to this is that the cap on a donor’s compensation through a clinic is often more appealing to many couples, especially when considering the medical costs associated with IVF.  Independent egg donor agencies vary in the compensation allowed to their donors, however, because they are in the business of advertising and screening donors; their primary focus is to locate and provide donors to parents. This leads to an increased number of candidates.

How do I locate a reputable clinic?  What about statistical reporting to the CDC?

Make certain to research your potential IVF doctors and their clinics, just as one would research a day care provider. Use the Society for Assisted Reproduction Technology (SART) statistics and ask questions, as well as verify their stats from the CDC.  Not all clinics report their statistics for various reason, but don’t let that rule out that clinic without first asking questions.  Find time to meet them for interviews, talk with the staff, and connect with other patients online in forums. Ask about their protocols and procedures, ask about their numbers, ask about references, and keep asking until satisfied. And remember, once a physician has been selected, continue to ask questions regarding protocol, testing, embryo grading, and so on. Keeping informed each step of the way is very important because patients need to be their own advocate.

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