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As a Parent, there are many positive reasons to grow your family through surrogacy, egg donation, or sperm donation!
How you got here doesn’t matter. What matters is fulfilling your dream to grow your family.
Whether you are privately struggling with infertility, or you identify as member of the LGBT community, or you are a single parent who does not want to wait, surrogacy could be the right solution for you.
Your path to becoming a parent may seem overwhelming but finding the providers that offer expertise in issues related to third-party reproductive techniques using donor egg, sperm, embryo, surrogacy or gestational carrier is essential.
Psychological support is an important part of your journey. Whether you are an intended parent, a surrogate, an egg donor, a sperm donor or an embryo donor. Psychological professionals recognize the importance of education and support at the beginning, in the middle and at the conclusion of the process. This is an integral part of your journey and should not be overlooked. Not only will the psychological screening ensure everyone is mentally and psychologically ready to be a surrogate or donor, but it will also prepare you for any potential challenges ahead.
How to handle the money and accounts of donors and surrogates is an important aspect in your journey. It allows parties to feel secure that the funds for this process are available and ready to make payments as needed. Actual trust accounts and escrow accounts are held by licensed attorneys or escrow companies who are licensed and bonded by their state. The parties need to be innovative and protect themselves. Check on that attorney with his or her state bar or ask that escrow company for a copy of its licensing and bonding and then verify it—do not take anyone’s word for it, whether you are a donor, surrogate, or intended parent. Point blank, ask questions and protect yourself.
Sperm banks have been around for decades providing prospective parents the opportunity to use sperm from a male who donates semen in order to help an individual or a couple conceive a baby. Donated sperm can be administered via intrauterine insemination or can be used to fertilize mature eggs in a lab via IVF. The landscape for sperm donation has changed over the years with some sperm donors agreeing to provide health information over their lifetime.
Egg banks provide prospective parents with thoroughly screened egg donors that have already has their eggs harvested and proven as high-quality and viable eggs. While egg banks provide you flexibility as a parent or egg donor, many still think that fresh eggs are the best option for most. There are pros and cons to frozen eggs versus fresh eggs, so please research each option beforehand.
By looking into our directory at Sage Fertility, you can locate. analyze, and research those in the third-party reproduction field to make certain that your journey goes as smoothly as possible – whether you are a parent, surrogate, egg donor, sperm donor, or embryo donor.
Please contact your IVF physician/clinic and several surrogacy and egg donor agencies directly for a comprehensive breakdown of expected costs. Please understand that the fees generally listed are estimated only. Always inquire about hidden costs or additional potential expenses along the way.
Although it is impossible to determine the exact cost of your specific situation, you should have a clear idea of what could potentially arise in a worst-case scenario. Fees listed by agencies for outside professionals are often manipulated so that working through their office will appear less costly, so please inquire with each individual professional for quoted rates. Be sure to also factor in the costs for laboratory fees, consultation appointments, legal fees, donor and surrogate compensation, agency fees, psychological screening and counseling, fertility professional fees, insurance costs, premiums and deductibles, travel costs, and miscellaneous expenses possibly incurred by the donor or throughout the pregnancy for the surrogate.
Most parents prefer to locate their donor through the assistance of their health care professional or through the services of an outside agency. Th e difference between these two options lies primarily in selection and wait time. Because most fertility centers offer donors only a very specific c compensation, the number of applicants available to provide to patients is limited, thereby increasing the wait time for parents. The upside to this is that the cap on a donor’s compensation through a clinic is often more appealing to many couples, especially when considering the medical costs associated with IVF. Independent egg donor agencies vary in the compensation allowed to their donors, however, because they are in the business of advertising and screening donors; their primary focus is to locate and provide donors to parents. This leads to an increased number of candidates.
Make certain to research your potential IVF doctors and their clinics, just as one would research a day care provider. Use the Society for Assisted Reproduction Technology (SART) statistics and ask questions, as well as verify their stats from the CDC. Not all clinics report their statistics for various reason, but don’t let that rule out that clinic without first asking questions. Find time to meet them for interviews, talk with the staff, and connect with other patients online in forums. Ask about their protocols and procedures, ask about their numbers, ask about references, and keep asking until satisfied. And remember, once a physician has been selected, continue to ask questions regarding protocol, testing, embryo grading, and so on. Keeping informed each step of the way is very important because patients need to be their own advocate.
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